Pelvic Health – Top tips for a fun and active life for Mothers!

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We all know the dreadful feeling of needing the bathroom suddenly to empty the bladder while having coffee with friends or while out shopping and how humiliating and embarrassing it is to be caught short and leak urine. Imagine the awful feeling with an over whelming urge to empty your bladder and not making it to the bathroom on time.

Worse still is the fear of not being able to control stool or gas. New Mums (and some not so new mums!) up and down the country are dealing with these awful problems. Help is available to give yourself back your freedom without fear of bladder and bowel leaks, for normal sexual function (to be able to orgasm or climax correctly) and to ensure optimal bowel and bladder emptying and solve constipation!

Progressive pelvic floor muscle training is recommended as a first line treatment for incontinence (CG171 NICE Guideline 2016). Two thirds of women with any type of incontinence who have pelvic floor muscle training see improvements or cure with 75% of women reporting resolution of symptoms such as episodes of incontinence (National Institute of Research doi:10.33310/signal-000702. That’s 2 out of 3 women will be cured of incontinence with pelvic floor muscle training and the third woman will be improved! This is also reflected in women and men for fecal incontinence, constipation, pelvic organ prolapse, and sexual and erectile dysfunction.

What about your pelvic floor and mothers?

What are the pelvic floor problems that can arise, that can be resolved? There are hormonal changes that occur during pregnancy and the post-natal period that affect the pelvic floor muscle function. In the pelvis and in the pelvic floor, hormonal changes occur that cause laxity of the pelvic soft tissues. The bladder and bowel muscles themselves can be affected with the hormonal changes too. Sexual function can be affected too with the hormonal changes, there can be pain and reduced libido. Pelvic Organ Prolapse can occur, (the pelvic organs, the bladder, rectum, womb and others coming down in the pelvic floor). Keeping your pelvic floor muscle function in the normal range of function is so important before, during and after pregnancy and it will prevent and treat these bladder, bowel, pelvic prolapse, pain and sexual problems.

Where exactly is the pelvic floor?

If you are a complete beginner and don’t have a clue what a pelvic floor is or where it is, lets talk about where these muscles are located in the body. Firstly, think of the area of your body between your waist and the top of your legs. This is where your pelvis is located, think of it as a basin shaped region. Your tummy area is where your core muscles are located. The pelvic floor muscles form the base of the pelvic basin and are really the underneath part of your core. The pelvic floor muscles hold up or supports your organs correctly in the pelvic cavity. These organs are your bladder and your bowel and in ladies your vaginal walls and your womb too.

How important are pelvic floor muscles?  

The pelvic floor muscles are among some of the most important muscles in the body because they are responsible for the normal filling, storing, and emptying of our bladder and our bowels. They are important too for normal sexual function (to be able to orgasm or climax correctly) and to hold our pelvic organs in place correctly and to guard as pelvic organ prolapse, the organs coming down (the bladder, bowel, and womb in women). If the pelvic floor muscles are not in the normal range of function, then our bladder and our bowel may not fill, store and empty urine (our wee) and stool (our poo) correctly. If we are not eliminating our waste material (wee and poo) correctly we can become unwell, with urinary tract infection or obstructed bowel or constipation.

Why are they important? 

If our bladders and our bowels are not working correctly or if we have pelvic organ prolapse, or sexual dysfunction our quality of life is affected. We can’t live our lives, go to work travel or exercise without worries about bladder or bowel leaks or we worry if we night need the bathroom urgently to empty our bladder or bowel. We won’t feel well if we can’t empty or bowels or our bladders and we might not sleep well either and our energy levels will be poor, and we will feel anxious. We might not be able to run around after our little ones, without the fear of a leak too!

How do we exercise the pelvic floor muscles? 

We need to train our muscles to be in the normal range or function. This involves a series of exercises and training routines. It can take a 3-to-6-month period of time to get the bulk, endurance, fitness, movement, and automatic function working in the normal range. The bladder and the bowel muscle themselves need to be trained too with lifestyle changes and some other exercises. The exercises need to be targeted to the different muscle fibers, and you need to progress them and keep doing them for life (at a maintenance dose but much more frequently in the beginning). 

It is not a quick fix, but it works, and it is so worth it! It is so much easier when the muscle is in the normal range to maintain then, it is harder for sure in the beginning, but it is possible! Post-natal Mums also need to train their abdominal muscles, training the pelvic floor will help zip up the tummy and gap or muscle separation (Diastasis Rectus Abdominal Muscle: DRAM) and is done as part of the nose to toes approach that is needed in getting the pelvic floor fully trained and back in shape after giving birth.

What age should we be starting pelvic floor exercises? 

Is it ever too late and should it be done before or during pregnancy (best from 20 weeks in first pregnancy) and the menopause? The largest group of people that have pelvic floor muscle weakness and bladder leakage is mothers in their 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s 60’s and 70’s. Before or during or after pregnancy and menopause a great time to start training your pelvic floor muscles, but you will need to do it sooner if you have any bladder or bowel problems.

Home Pelvic Routines are an online way of doing the pelvic floor muscle training, without even having to come and see the pelvic physiotherapist! They are an affordable, convenience and quick way of getting you pelvic floor muscle trained, in privacy, using any device, phone, tablet or laptop. All you need is an email address to log on and create a password enabled account. They are available to purchase from www.spectrumhealth.ie and from our platform, course.homepelvicroutines.com or from our website www.ippm.ie

I have seen thousands of women and men through my hands every year, in the last 25 years, with pelvic floor muscle dysfunction. My at home pelvic floor muscle training program, Home Pelvic Routine, is designed to that even the weakest person can do this program of training and routines successfully, will feel that they are doing the exercises correctly and will be progressed through the exercises that are needed, at the right pace for optimal cost effective, convenient and quick training results!

How long can it take to see the benefits? 

In 1 week, you will see improvements, but it can take 3 -6 months to fully train the pelvic floor muscles and then you need to keep up a maintenance amount up for life.

What issues can it pose for women and mothers and sex? Pelvic Floor Muscle Dysfunction can affect mothers and women from a pain, a climax and arousal side of things. Many people might think it’s just women that have a pelvic floor but there are many benefits for men too for having a strong pelvic floor, what are those? Men also need to train their pelvic floors for exactly the same reasons as women. Men too unfortunately get the very same bladder, bowel, and sexual dysfunction, especially, erectile dysfunction as women. 

In summary if you are thinking of starting a family, if you are pregnant or post-natal, train your pelvic floor muscles as an essential of preventative therapy for optimal pelvic health! Live your best life without our fear of bladder leaks or other pelvic floor problems! Please send me any questions or queries to aoife@ippm.ie